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SEPTEMBER
Wizard World, TN
Nashville, TN, Sept 26 - 28, 2014 Wizard World, Nashville, TN, Sept 26 - 28, 2014

OCTOBER
GeekGirlCon, WA
Seattle, WA, October 11-12, 2014 GeekGirlCon, Seattle, WA, October 11-12, 2014

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Monday
Oct272014

episode 135 - Game on Ghouls

In our first ever Halloween episode, Rhonda and I talk about season 7 of True Blood. I will warn you now - WE SPOIL EVERYTHING. So if you are a fan and haven't watched, skip to the last part of the episode where we talk about our favorite scary games, TV, movies, and books. My book selection made Rhonda laugh out loud. You should listen just to find out why! 

"True Blood", Season 7

SCARY GAMES

Silent Hill, Konami
Dead Space, EA (available for Kindle and Android)
Pandemic, Z-man Games

SCARY MOVIE

"The Shining"
"Session 9"

SCARY TV

"American Horror Story"
"The Walking Dead", Season 5, Episode 1

SCARY BOOK

"The Amityville Horror", Jay Anson
"50 Shades of Grey", E. L. James

DREAM COSTUME

Wonder Woman
Ellen Ripley and the Caterpillar work loader

COMING EVENTS

NC ComicCon, November 15th & 16th, Durham

"Horns", rated R, starring Daniel Radcliffe

"Strange Empire", CBC
Set in 1869 Alberta-Montana border country, 'Strange Empire' is a Western whose heroes are women. With most of the men gone, and those who remain battling for control, the women struggle to survive, to find their independence, and to build a life in which to thrive and raise families.

"2 Broke Girls", CBS
"Mom", Season 2, CBS
"The McCarthys", CBS
"Elementary", CBS
"Grimm", NBC
"Alpha House", Amazon
"Web Therapy", Showtime 

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Until next time, game on! 
Regina & Rhonda 

Every sound I hear, every time the phone rings, every shadow in the corner of my eye, I think it’s Bill. I keep expecting him to come through the door and say, “Sookie.”

- True Blood, Season 3, Episode 2, 18:14

Episode 135

Friday
Oct242014

❤ Positive Feminism

When I’m on a con panel, I look for an opportunity to mention that I don’t agree with the conclusions of She-who-shall-not-be-named in her Game-Trope series and that her voice is not the best to put forward for feminism.* When I say this, there are audible groans of disapproval in the audience. That’s fine. I want the community to be open to differing opinions and keep an open mind. But it seems people aren’t comfortable doing that.

After one panel at DragonCon a handful of people came up to me and secretly confessed they agreed with me about She-who-shall-not-be-named. “But if she’s not our feminist delegate, who else is there? Don’t I have to fall in line?”

Absolutely not.

Putting forth only one representative for a complex idea will, in fact, have the opposite effect. The fallout we’ve been seeing lately is a clear example of that. The proliferation of hearsay may even cause the  altogether loss of the term ‘feminism’ as anything socially positive. A valid cause and idea has become lost in a screaming match. There are lots of reasons for the screaming (lies, misinformation, piety, etc.), but one is the desperate need of the feminist community to defend the narrow representation we’ve put forth.

The feminist model that speaks for you should be chosen by you, not a community, hashtag, meme, or prolific headliner. Social media is defining who and what you are. Drive social media; don’t ride its helter-skelter, chameleon party bus. Choose for yourself a feminist that speaks for you and raise them up via your tweets, friend clicks, likes, posts, tumbles, etc. We talk to people on the show all the time that may voice your feminism  look back at those as a starting point.

The first thing you need to do is understand is what feminism means to you. Feminism is not a cause, it’s a conviction. Feminism is not a negative, it’s a positive. “I’m against hate speech,” is a cause. “I’m for inclusion and diversity,” is a conviction. Spell out your principles on paper about what it means to you to be a feminist. Then, you can choose a mentor and a cause.

One feminist cause seems to be railing against hate speech but it’s a very small and futile one. As any psychologist will tell you about relationships (or anyone who’s been in a relationship), you can’t change another person — not with reasoning, screaming, badgering, shaming… anything. You’ll make bigger strides for feminism if you become a better feminist than you will in trying to stop one person’s hate speech. As a group cause, we can encourage individuals to stand up, one-on-one, against online hate speech.

What about death threats? This is different. It is a form of hate speech, but it crosses a line. This is not a cause, it is a crime, and our tax-paid enforcement agencies should be dealing with it. If they are not, you have a cause with law and enforcement leaders and your social media rants may actually work against you in this. If you are a victim of threats, you should be going to the police and not online. There is no benefit to you or the community to make threats public.

“But people need to know this is happening.”

In regards to death threats specifically, why? If law enforcement is handling it, then what does it benefit feminism or the online community to know about it? If it is being dealt with, it is, by definition, not a cause. And you’re not going to stop it by putting it on the new celebrity stage of social media. Retweeting gives it importance and I don’t think it’s the importance you intend. Believe me; the hater is thrilled you retweeted. The online affirmation is the retweet/like/❤/△/@.

To Regina’s optimism, I am the pessimist. I see no end to hate or threatening speech. And if we can’t change the other person then let’s not waste our efforts. Exert all of this energy to raise the positive message, live an example of our feminism, be a feminist mentor, and put forth more and more representatives. If we’re going on a raid, we need more than a single crafting sorceress.

I'll Give You A Topic

Are there any other feminist models out there? Who are they?

* I think I used all the hot-button words in that sentence. That should get a bunch of unnecessary hits. Bleh.

Tuesday
Oct212014

episode 134 - Anne Marie Porter: Gaming & Health Research

This week we catch up with researcher and graduate student, Anne Marie Porter. Anne Marie shares with us her research exploring games and health. Yes, you read that right. HEALTH. Listen to hear some fascinating effects gaming can have on the brain. 

Rhonda and I WRaP up our week as the fall TV season takes off. I share some shows I am reluctant to return to this season - are there any on your NOT to watch list?

WATCHING

"Jim Henson's Creature Shop Challenge", SyFy, HuluPlus
"New Girl", Season 3 on Netflix
"Brooklyn Nine Nine", Fox
"Selfie", ABC

READING

"Chicks Dig Gaming", Mad Norwegian Press, out November 11
"In the Woods", Tana French
"Smoke Gets in Your Eyes: And Other Lessons from the Crematory", Caitlin Doughty

PLAYING

"Magic: The Gathering"

COMING

NC ComicCon, November 15 & 16, Durham, NC
"John Wick"
that samari movie Keanu Reeves did ("47 Ronin")
"Constantine", NBC
"2 Broke Girls", CBS

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Regina & Rhonda 

I will eviscerate you in fiction. Every pimple, every character flaw. I was naked for a day; you will be naked for eternity.

- Chaucer, A Knight's Tale

Episode 134

Wednesday
Oct152014

Game On Girl at GeekGirlCon '14!

Monday
Oct132014

episode 133 - GeekGirlCon

We had a great time this weekend at GeekGirlCon '14! Rhonda, Isabela, and I represented Game on Girl at this fantastic gathering. We recorded a short podcast and several short videos showing off all the great stuff and fantastic people in attendance. Make sure to subscribe to our YouTube Channel so you don't miss anything. Here is the intro video of all three of us in the same place!

LINKS

GeekGirlCon, Seattle, WA, October 11 - 12, 2014 

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Until next time, game on! 
Regina & Rhonda & Isabela

Episode 133